Oct 24

Maxims of the Heart: Guarding the Gateways - An Islamic and Therapeutic Integration with applied interventions

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The heart (qalb) occupies a central role in Islamic spirituality and moral psychology. In the Qur’an, the heart is frequently portrayed as the seat of comprehension, moral discernment (the word fuad is the seat of perception and discernment), and spiritual receptivity: “Indeed, in their hearts is a disease, and Allah has increased their disease; and for them is a painful punishment because they habitually lie” (2:10). The heart is not merely a metaphorical organ but the locus of ethical and spiritual formation, influencing both cognition and behaviour.

Classical scholars such as al-Ghazzali and Ibn al-Qayyim emphasise that the heart is the sovereign of the self, with the limbs acting as its ministers and agents. Just as a king’s decisions determine the welfare of a state, the heart’s condition directs the moral and spiritual orientation of the individual (Al-Ghazzali, 1996; Ibn al-Qayyim, 1999).


Some modern psychological perspectives resonate with this framework. Cognitive neuroscience and affective science indicate that attention, perception, and emotion are deeply interrelated processes. The heart, as understood metaphorically in Islamic thought, parallels the concept of the integrative center of cognition and affect, where moral intuitions, emotional responses, and deliberate reasoning converge (Damasio, 1994; Shafranske, 2013). Thus, the safeguarding of the heart, through regulation of its sensory gateways, aligns both with classical Islamic guidance and contemporary psychological understanding of self-regulation.


The Gateways of the Heart: Eye, Ear, and Tongue


Classical Islamic scholarship consistently identifies three primary conduits through which influences reach the heart: the eye, the ear, and the tongue. Ibn al-Qayyim (1999) states, “The heart is the king, and the limbs are the soldiers; the condition of the soldiers reflects their proximity and loyalty to the king. The eye, ear, and tongue are the principal instruments by which the king is served or endangered.”


The Eye


The eye is considered the most influential gateway because it both conveys and reflects the heart’s inclinations. Al-Ghazzali (1996) describes the eye as the mirror of the heart, capable of revealing internal states through subtle behaviours and gazes. Ibn al-Qayyim (1999) emphasises that when the heart is corrupt, the eye misperceives beauty and ugliness, seeing the morally corrupt as appealing and the virtuous as flawed.


From a psychological perspective, the eye is the primary sensory channel through which environmental stimuli shape cognition and emotion. Research in affective neuroscience indicates that visual input can trigger immediate emotional responses and influence moral judgments, particularly in contexts involving empathy, aesthetic evaluation, or social perception (LeDoux, 2012). Islamic guidance on lowering the gaze (ghadd al-basar) aligns with these insights: regulating what the eyes perceive protects the heart from undue moral and emotional influence, facilitating focus on virtuous thoughts and actions (4:30–31).


Night prayer (ṣalat al-layl) exemplifies this principle in practice. The darkness limits visual stimuli, allowing the heart to concentrate and reflect without distraction. This spiritual discipline parallels psychological strategies such as controlled exposure and attentional focusing, which are used to minimize maladaptive cognitive or emotional activation (Shapiro et al., 2006).

 

The Ear


The ear functions as both sentinel and gatekeeper of the heart. What is heard reaches the heart and is evaluated, assimilated, or rejected according to internal moral and cognitive schemas. Classical scholars note that the ear’s effect on the heart is more enduring than that of the eye, though its impact may manifest more gradually (Ibn al-Qayyim, 1999).


Psychologically, auditory stimuli are deeply implicated in memory formation and emotional processing. Sounds, words, and narratives can prime moral reasoning, evoke affective responses, and shape behavioural inclinations (Koelsch, 2010). This highlights the Islamic emphasis on selective listening, avoiding vain speech, slander, and immoral narratives, and engaging with that which elevates understanding and virtue (17:36).


The Tongue


The tongue serves as the ladle (mighrafah) of the heart, pouring forth that which resides within. The Qur’an emphasises its role alongside the eyes: “Have We not made for him two eyes and a tongue and two lips?” (90:8–9). Ibn al-Qayyim (1999) explains that the tongue communicates the heart’s contents, revealing either its purity or corruption, while the lips serve as regulators, restraining or permitting speech. Silence in the face of evil is a virtue, just as speech in goodness is commendable.


Modern psychology echoes this principle through studies on verbal behaviour and self-expression. Words are not only reflections of thought but also shape cognitive and emotional processes. Rumination, negative self-talk, and gossip reinforce maladaptive schemas, whereas affirming, reflective, and compassionate speech promotes emotional regulation and moral clarity (Pennebaker, 1997; Gross, 2015).

In Islamic practice, mindful speech (adab al-lisan) safeguards the heart, reflecting a conscious interface between inner moral cognition and outward behaviour.


The Psychology of Perception and Influence


The human heart-or the integrative cognitive-emotional center-is profoundly affected by the quality of sensory input. Visual and auditory stimuli, alongside verbal expression, interact with cognitive schemas and affective networks to reinforce or destabilize moral and spiritual orientation.


For instance, repeated exposure to morally neutral or virtuous images and sounds strengthens associated neural pathways, facilitating ethical perception and emotional regulation. Conversely, repeated exposure to corrupting stimuli can normalize unethical behaviour and distort affective judgment (Damasio, 1994; LeDoux, 2012).


In Islamic spirituality, this aligns with the principle that what enters the heart is mirrored in the limbs: “And [Allah] taught Adam the names-all of them…” (2:31). The cultivation of selective attention, mindfulness, and moral discernment in both seeing and hearing forms the foundation of tazkiyah, the purification of the heart (Al-Ghazzali, 1996). Contemporary psychological frameworks, such as attentional control, cognitive restructuring, and emotional regulation, parallel these practices, highlighting the enduring relevance of these teachings.


Guarding the Heart: Applied Principles


Guarding the gateways of the heart involves intentional regulation of the eye, ear, and tongue. Classical guidance identifies several practical measures:

 

Lowering the gaze (ghadd al-basar): Avoiding sights that provoke moral corruption or spiritual distraction.


Selective listening: Choosing beneficial knowledge, spiritual recitation, and morally uplifting speech while avoiding harmful conversations and gossip.


Mindful speech (adab al-lisan): Speaking only that which brings benefit, refraining from falsehood, backbiting, and harmful expressions.


Self-reflection and accountability (muhasabah): Daily contemplation of moral and spiritual conduct, identifying weaknesses in the heart and sensory regulation (Ibn Rajab, 1994).


Spiritual exercises (dhikr, ṣalat, recitation, good deeds): Practices that heighten awareness of God and increase the heart’s resilience against corrupting influences (Al-Ghazzali, 1996).


These measures echo modern psychological principles: self-monitoring, cognitive restructuring, and attentional control. By regulating sensory input, individuals strengthen their cognitive and emotional capacity to respond rather than react to stimuli, enhancing moral and psychological resilience (Shafranske, 2013).


Basic Integrative Counselling Dialogue Example


Counsellor: “You mentioned feeling distracted by social media images. What small change could help your heart feel more centered this week?”


Client: “I could limit my browsing to educational or spiritual content for 30 minutes a day.”


Counsellor: “How would you know your heart feels more protected after doing this?”


Client: “I would notice less agitation and more clarity in prayer and reflection.”


The Ills of the Heart and Their Safeguards


Islamic moral psychology holds that the heart may suffer from spiritual and psychological “diseases” (amraḍ al-qulub) that distort perception and intention. The Qur’an declares, “In their hearts is a disease, and Allah has increased their disease” (2:10). Classical scholars interpret these diseases as affective-cognitive distortions that obscure the heart’s ability to perceive truth and act virtuously (Al-Ghazzali, 1996; Ibn al-Qayyim, 1999). Modern psychology parallels this view in its descriptions of maladaptive schemas, emotional dysregulation, and cognitive bias (Beck, 1976; Gross, 2015). Understanding these illnesses enables both prevention and treatment through spiritual practice and therapeutic intervention.


The Disease of Pride (Kibr)


Nature: Pride is the inflation of the ego and the refusal of truth. The Prophet ﷺ said, “No one who has an atom’s weight of pride in his heart will enter Paradise” (Muslim). Pride blocks empathy, distorts moral reasoning, and prevents self-reflection.


Safeguard: Cultivating humility (tawaḍuʿ) through remembering human contingency, engaging in acts of service, and acknowledging dependence on God. In therapy, pride may manifest as defensiveness; authentic Islamic counselling can redirect attention toward exceptions when the person acted with openness or gratitude, reinforcing humility as a strength rather than a loss.

 

The Disease of Envy (Ḥasad)


Nature: Envy is sorrow at another’s blessing and the desire for its removal. It corrodes inner peace and social trust (Ibn Rajab, 1994). Psychologically, envy links to social comparison and low self-esteem (Smith & Kim, 2007).


Safeguard: Practicing contentment (qanaʿah) and gratitude (shukr). Qur’an 20:131 warns, “Do not extend your eyes toward what We have given to some of them.” Therapeutically, magnifying and amplifying gratitude and scaling questions (“On a scale from 0–10, how content did you feel this week?”) can operationalise this virtue.


The Disease of Ostentation (Riyaʾ)


Nature: Performing deeds for human approval rather than divine acceptance. It is a distortion of intention that produces chronic anxiety and external validation seeking (Al-Ghazzali, 1996).


Safeguard: Renewing intention (niyyah) through daily muhasabah and private worship. From a psychological lens, this mirrors intrinsic motivation training-focusing on values rather than social reward. In authentic Islamic counselling approach, the counsellor may ask, “What will be different in your heart when your actions are guided mainly by sincerity?”


The Disease of Anger and Resentment (Ghaḍab)


Nature: Excessive or misdirected anger blinds judgment and hardens the heart. The Prophet ﷺ advised, “Do not become angry” (Bukhari). Neuroscience shows that chronic anger activates stress circuits that impair empathy and executive control (Davidson & Begley, 2012).


Safeguard: Practicing patience (ṣabr) and emotional regulation. Islamic techniques such as performing ablution, changing posture, and seeking refuge in God are analogues to evidence-based grounding and mindfulness strategies (Shapiro et al., 2006). Scaling and exception questions can help clients recognise moments when they responded calmly, building self-efficacy.


The Disease of Lust and Desire (Shahwah)


Nature: Unchecked desire enslaves the heart to transient pleasure, undermining self-control. Qur’an 79:40–41 praises “the one who feared standing before his Lord and restrained his soul from (base) desire.”


Safeguard: Fasting, modesty, and lowering the gaze. Behavioural self-control methods-stimulus regulation, delaying gratification-parallel these practices. In therapy, clients can articulate specific coping plans (“What will help you notice the moment before temptation and choose differently?”).


The Disease of Heedlessness (Ghaflah)


Nature: Forgetfulness of God and moral purpose. It manifests as distraction, apathy, and loss of meaning. Qur’an 59:19 warns, “And do not be like those who forgot Allah, so He made them forget themselves.”


Safeguard: Regular remembrance (dhikr) and reflection. Muraqaba interventions that cultivate moment-to-moment awareness mirror dhikr’s attentional training, restoring coherence between thought and intention (Shapiro et al., 2006). Islamic Counselling can operationalise this by identifying times of heightened awareness and exploring how to expand them.

 

The Disease of Doubt and Despair (Shakk and Yaʾs)


Nature: Persistent suspicion or hopelessness regarding divine mercy erodes faith and resilience. The Qur’an counters: “Indeed, none despairs of the mercy of Allah except the disbelieving people” (12:87).


Safeguard: Nurturing trust (tawakkul) and hope (raja’) through cognitive reframing and spiritual contemplation. Therapists can employ the Miracle Question to help clients envision a future self grounded in hope: “Suppose a miracle occurred and you felt certain of divine mercy-what would change in your thinking and behaviour tomorrow?”


Behavioural Manifestations of Inner Disease


Islamic ethics views outward wrongdoing as the natural consequence of inner corruption. The Prophet ﷺ said, “Verily, in the body there is a morsel of flesh; if it is sound, the whole body is sound, and if it is corrupt, the whole body is corrupt. Truly, it is the heart” (-Bukhari, Muslim). When pride, envy, or heedlessness infect the heart, they express themselves through speech and action.


Backbiting (Ghibah)


Nature: Speaking about others in their absence with words they would dislike ( 49:12). Al-Ghazzali (1996) links backbiting to envy and arrogance-a wish to elevate oneself by lowering another.


Safeguard: Practicing self-restraint and empathy. Remembering one’s own faults and maintaining silence unless speech brings benefit aligns with both Islamic virtue ethics and modern mindfulness-based self-regulation (Shapiro et al., 2006). In therapy, clients may explore “exception moments” when they chose silence or compassion and how those moments affected their peace of heart.


Lying (Kadhib)


Nature: False speech distorts reality and erodes trust. The Qur’an condemns lying repeatedly (16:105). Ibn al-Qayyim (1999) regards habitual lying as a sign of hypocrisy (nifaq), a moral dissonance between inner belief and outer word.


Safeguard: Truthfulness (ṣidq), developed through
awareness of God’s presence (muraqabah). Psychologically, this parallels (in one sense) congruence and authenticity-core predictors of well-being (Rogers, 1961). Islami practitioners can ask, “What would change in your relationships if your words and intentions were fully aligned?”


Cheating and Betrayal (Khiyanah)


Nature: Violating trust in commerce or relationship springs from greed and moral heedlessness. The Prophet ﷺ said, “He who deceives us is not one of us” (Muslim).


Safeguard: Integrity (amanah) and accountability. Regular muhasabah-personal auditing-helps prevent small breaches from becoming habitual. Therapists can invite clients to scale their current sense of integrity and imagine one concrete act that would move the score one point higher.


Disobedience and Moral Neglect (Ma‘ṣiyah and Fisq)


Nature: Persistent neglect of divine commands results from heedlessness (ghaflah) and weak faith (iman). Qur’an 45:23 warns against following desires as a god besides God.


Safeguard: Spiritual routines that strengthen awareness-prayer, fasting, charity, remembrance-and environmental design that minimises triggers for sin. Behaviourally, these correspond to relapse-prevention and stimulus-control strategies (Marlatt & Donovan, 2005). In Islamic
Counselling, clients may be asked, “When have you recently acted in line with your values despite temptation? What made that possible?”


Composite Illness: Hypocrisy (Nifaq)


Nature: The culmination of unaddressed diseases, hypocrisy manifests as internal disbelief with external conformity. Qur’an 4:145 describes it as a state “in the lowest depths of the Fire.” Ibn al-Qayyim (1999) differentiates between major hypocrisy (belief) and minor hypocrisy (behavioural inconsistency).


Safeguard: Continuous renewal of faith through repentance (tawbah), self-examination, and sincere intention (ikhlaṣ). Cognitive-behavioural analogues include values clarification and commitment to congruent action.

The heart, as both a spiritual and psychological center, is profoundly shaped by sensory input and expression.

Classical Islamic scholarship identifies the eye, ear, and tongue as primary gateways, while modern psychology confirms the influence of perception, attention, and verbal behaviour on cognition and emotion. By combining spiritual disciplines(lowering the gaze, selective listening, mindful speech, dhikr, muraqabah) with Islamic therapeutic strategies, individuals can cultivate a protected, resilient, and morally attuned heart.

 

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